What is best for your baby? This is a question most parents are concerned about. Of course you want to give your child the best that you can. A nice environment to grow in, a place where they are let out their thoughts and learn what is right and wrong on their own. They will still need your guidance. A parent’s guidance is something that is most important in a child’s development. So let’s see how you can help your child have a healthy brain and personality development. Here are something’s that might concern you.
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- Your presence and guidance is important. It is an evident fact that children have a better development when it is under the guidance of an adult. Yes, kids learn to watch and observe their parents and elder siblings from a very young age. So it is always better to act sensibly when in presence of a kid. You might accidently covey something’s that you didn’t wanted to. Disaster! Isn’t it? So it is better to be cautious.
- There is something else that should be focused on as well. Do not be too intervening. Kids tend to be free and do not pay attention to everything that they do. They do not like it when people keep constantly commenting and advising them. I understand that your intentions are pure. You just want to guide your child. You do not want him to make any mistakes which may cause him problems in future. But sometimes it is better to set back and let your baby learn on his own.
- Be the pillar of support for your child. Children want someone on whom they can rely on. Someone who would catch them when they will fall. Someone on whom they can count on. And you need to be that. You need to develop that bond of trust and friendship between you and your child that they do not feel hesitated whenever they have to come and talk to you. They should feel free. But at the same time keep in mind not to be stress on it too much. Let your child take the first step. Let him come and talk to you about his problems.
- Never let your child feel that he is the center of attraction. It is important to let him know that he means something to you. He is important to you. But do not let him feel that you are stressing too much on him. Because if this is the condition then after sometime he might not feel good about getting too much attention. It might even set in his mind that he has to be a good child, all the time, or else something bad might happen. He might fail to enjoy his time with his friends, at the park, or at school. It is good to give him some liberty. Some freedom to make choices. And always back him up, if he needs your support, give him.
So here are our few tips. Hope you find them helpful.